

So, today I decided to do my usual tax prep thing. I go to Panera with all my folders of receipts, my calculator, pen & other essentials. By doing this ritual, I find I get more focused - plus I get a big table to spread out at and good coffee to drink & soup when I'm done! This year I wasn't able to focus that well. In fact, I didn't finish what I set out to accomplish.
Now- I'm a go with the flow, embrace change sort of person. I like technology - to a point. But I also like to practice etiquette, and have an awareness and respect for others when I'm out (thanks Mom). Sadly, I'm finding that those who have heard of etiquette, or even give a whit (is that a phrase?) about others are seriously dwindling in numbers.
It seems Panera has gone from a coffee shop/sweet shop/soup & sandwich place to meet friends/eat & talk, to a place of personal outsourced offices which happen to have some coffee & food nearby. OMG!!! So I'm trying to eat & quietly work, only to feel like I'm in a freaking call center! I thought I had found the quiet spot in the place - a place with kindred souls -those who only had food, or paperwork or a computer infront of them - no cell phones. But slowly the cell folks filled all the spaces. I had a guy - on his phone- pacing back & forth, back & forth, back & forth, back & forth right past my table while talking loudly on his phone. After glaring at him with each pass, he finally took the hint & began pacing by someone else.
Then there was the guy who was on his cell phone for 45 minutes. He got up to go to the restroom...... with his flippin' laptop! OMG - with his laptop! I have seen it all! Really! Going potty with his laptop. Did he think someone would steal it? I think not... they were all too focused on their cell phone conversations to even notice a laptop sitting unattended!
What the heck have we become? Are we really that self important? Can we not take a half hour for lunch & really have lunch? (OMG - Im sounding like Andy Rooney). Moi? My mission tomorrow will be to find a quiet little place where I can finish my paperwork in peace, with good coffee & a good lunch!
Ta-ta!


















































